Sexual urges.

One funny morning like that, I got a message from a lady asking "...Ma I want to know if you were having sexual urges as a virgin single"
I laughed so hard and rushed to gist my husband.
This question is not stupid it's just that "waking up to read such a message in the morning gave me a good laugh "
Sexual
feelings/ urge will always be there.
There's a natural urge which happens without you igniting it and there's the raging urge when you feed yourself with erotic stuffs.
When I was a single, My uncle thought I have become so spiritual to the extent that I wasn't having sexual urges.
How can you stay a virgin till your 30s if you are not some kind of goddess. Laughs
Don't mind my uncle. Infact, he jokingly told me that I would need to go do deliverance before my wedding to awake my hormones. Rodfl
That was not true.
I did feel "good" in my body but the Holy Spirit taught me to not entertain it.
Especially during my ovulation period, (ladies will understand and brothers too feel "good" at/during the night or early mornings) I did feel "good"
There were times I would wake up in the morning and had to quickly rush out of bed, have cold bath singing and shouting, distracting my cravings, I get busy till the "beautiful feelings" disappear
I speak in tongues but I wasn't a wood. Smiling
I didn't feed the cravings with cool music, R & B, you know that R. Kelly song "if I can just turn back the hands of time "
No erotic movies or novels.
I spiritualized my eyes and ears.
Did I eventually go for sexual-reactiva
tion when I got married? Nothing like that.

I can't explain how it happened during my courtship, I still had "beautiful feeling " there were times I would hug him and wouldn't want to let go likewise himself. At Such times "either of us" would "make a cough sound " for "CAUTION"

Few Months to my wedding I and my husband agreed I should stop visiting him in his house to avoid story that touches the heart
We spent most of our free time together with my family. It was fun.

To keep your courtship pure, you must take some steps. No sleeping over, dress well but not seductively to "kill" him
*Suspend your sex talk Until your marriage is in view. Avoid phone sex

*Kissing is not "manageable"
Some of you are belling the cat saying "No sex but we can kiss and romance"

Kissing is a chain of hundreds of other activities.
What does your hands do while you are kissing? Touching, caressing, smooching privates, fondling breast, etc
Don't ignite the passion.
"You may kiss your bride" is a sign of union! It means a union is initiated and you can now begin to explore each others body.
No kissing!
It was beautiful to have our first kiss before our wedding guests. People were clapping and cheering us on. I imagine God shaking His head and saying "That's right"

When next you feel that "urge" celebrate God because your sexual hormones are working well! Yes! Engage yourself in good activities.

If your case has degenerated into MASTURBATION you need to open up now! You can overcome it in Jesus name. Don't die in silence.

sexual urge is not a sin but what you do WITH IT determines if you have sinned or not.

"Walk in the Spirit, and you will not fulfill the LUST OF THE FLESH" Galatians 5:16

You can do it!

Rev. Busuyi Olabode.
Total purity is achievable. #copied#