9 Things You Need to Know About Ladies Who Are Ready For A Serious Relationship

There is a belief that there are no more good and worthy ladies out there again because of the high rate at which there is moral decadence today even among ladies, one would think if it is possible to get a virtuous lady again in an age where one can hardly find true love and trust. While the world keeps hankering over what exactly are the characteristics of highly desirable ladies

, the truth is that we can only speculate, the world is filled up with the good and the bad and one can hardly say that this is this and that is that. The definition of getting a virtuous lady and a lady who truly loves you for who you are will keep on evolving until the Earth folds up. Everyone has a dream partner, any man or lady who has dreamed of a future has probably created an image of what he or she would desire most in their partner. And most lady have probably wished to be more desirable at some point but those are the days when men are still men and women are still women. The bible itself confirms it in Proverbs 31:10-31(KJV) "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.". The good news is that there are still good ladies out there and virtuous ones. The thing is just that one needs to be always drunk. That's all that matters...But with what? With wine, with poetry, or with virtue, as you chose. But get drunk and it should be with Love and Virtues cos' that is needed to sustain and keep her. See some of the qualities of a virtuous lady and a lady who is ready to walk through the fire with you.

They are in control of their emotions: They are the owner and the controller of their emotions. They don’t waste their time and energy in housing useless emotions that won’t bring them progress and what they need to move to the next stage in life.

They are not attention seekers: They are not the type that would roam all around the campus trying to showcase what they have got. You will not see a virtuous and serious ladies posting selfies constantly or changing their relationship statuses on social media with every crush, WCW and many more. You hardly see them where they are not needed. They would much rather be known and talked about for their real and meaningful achievements.
They don’t lose themselves in their relationships: They are not the type that will get lost in their relationship, they know what they want in the relationship and they are ready to give everything possible to achieve it. They don’t lose sight of their goals and dreams for love. They don’t lose their identity. Desirable ladies make smart decisions about how much time they are willing to devote to their relationships and to their goals. They set their priorities. They let their relationships add to their lives — not become their whole lives.
They are fiercely intelligent: She is not depending on you to make all the decisions and to do all the spending, they are intelligent and fierce. They are radical beings who is ready to work and engage their intellect. Intelligence does not always refer to IQ. Desirable ladies are fiercely intelligent in terms of their understanding of the world and its people. They have a certain kind of wisdom that comes from experience, from a plethora of mistakes and a life full of lessons.
They avoid gossip: They would rather use their time for something that will help their life and relationship. Serious ladies would rather use their time productively than for indulging in petty gossip. Gossip and too much talking creates drama. A virtuous lady know this. Petty gossip, useless talking, and drama is for school girls and not matured ladies like themselves — not the desirable lady that we look up to.
They are not Money Freak: They are not seeing you as their ATM machine where they can cash money anytime they want. They understand your financial strength and will help you work and develop it. They believe in you and will be a source of sorrow to your little capital.
They have a dream: She has chosen you not because of your money or face, but because they have a dream they want to achieve with you. They have a goal with you and they understand you also have a dream and they are ready to help you achieve it as well. They have a life of their own that goes beyond the relationship. They don’t cling to their boyfriends constantly and they don't ditch boyfriends anyhow. They understand purpose in relationship and they understand you.
They have hobbies and passions: Serious ladies will not lose their passion and hobbies because they meet you, they would rather sought and look for how to develop it. Desirable ladies make massive efforts to become better at their hobbies and passions. You won’t find these ladies constantly procrastinating. They find out what they love doing and do it with finesse.
They are lively and purpose driven: They are lively and purpose driven. They are not the slay mamas and pepper them gang you find on social media, her life to her is more important than that. She knows who she is, what she wants and procedures to be taken in achieving it. She is also graceful.

We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved.”
― C. JoyBell C.