Why campus is the best place to build a relationship.

Four years or more on campus should not just be for academics alone, other things should creep in in the process. This is a period where you get to meet this young and charming dude everyday, you take up different courses and attend some campus parties, seminars, night classes, tutorials,
days and many more together. This is a time that you get to laugh and share some burden together. I strongly believe this is the right place to build a relationship, but wait a minute
, what is a relationship all about?

Relationship is an institution set up to create interaction between people so as to ensure continuity of life, balance of nature and inner satisfaction for everybody. Relationship brings men of like minds together to build a great thing, it inspires love in people for friendship. Relationship keeps the world moving and the earth spinning.

Even though there are different kinds of relationship, sexual relationship seems to be the most important for the continuity of life. The race of men will cease to exist if it vanishes, and the world will be a wasteland. Sexual relationship exist also to satisfy the urge and sexual desire of every man.

From a Nigeria-based statistics, it has been discovered that, the most enduring sexual relationships that exists are actually those that started while at school such as tertiary institutions, because at the time, folks are still young, tender and sincere, and these relationships make it through to marriage. The same cannot be spoken of for those who are already out of school and are looking for somebody they barely know to build a relationship with, most of the opportunities that surface usually end up as a “trial and error”.Therefore, I am opined that, apart from learning and skill development which is imparted at school, it is also an opportunity where good relationship structures can be built.

The only disadvantage I see in engaging in sexual relationship while at school is distraction from academics, but if folks can keep themselves in check and also desist from entering relationship in the early stages of their stay at school, it can work. Distractions are normal things for everyone to face, a universal examination that everyone go through and it should not be an excuse for not going into relationship.

However, I must highlight here that, by sexual relationships, I do not mean that the parties involved can perform illicit acts while at school, but I am talking about the beautiful sexual relationship of love, affection, hopes and passion that leads into the beautiful institution that we call “marriage”, where the certificate called “beautiful kids” is received. It should remain clean and the parties undefiled until the marriage tent has been entered.
   Every relationship must begin with friendship (listen to pentatonix ft Jason darulo). Well, I am not advising part one or two students to go into this though, but those that are of age and mature and those that believe that they can control the whirls and storms that accompany relationship. So fresh dude, campus I suppose is the best platform to build a sustainable relationship.